Yuck...

Well my "mild cold" turned out to be the mother of all colds. I went to work on Friday, feeling like crap, and was eventually sent home early after Mic took an hour lunch so she could cover for me. I've mostly been laying on the couch, taking Nyquil, Dayquil, and Theraflu in rotation. Finally on Sunday, I am starting to feel human again. I've coughed up most of the congestion, just a little left. I was so afraid this was going to be strep throat, since there is a bout of it going around the valley. After a good night's rest, I should be able to make it through work tomorrow. Hopefully this will be the last cold of the season...knock on wood.

Egads, I think I'm sick....

Not feeling well, think it's a mild cold. Yuck.
But anyway, here is a funny commercial I saw tonight on some program:

Handsome devil. . .

After the holiday gig with the band.

Workouts have been going pretty well. I'm starting to run 5K on the treadmill; Thursday I was able to run most of it at 7.0 and then pumping it up to 7.5 for the last lap and a half. Awesome feeling. It did take a little bit out of me and I had a little trouble finishing some of my reps on the weights later. But I'm impressed on how my waist is trimming up. Just got to keep at it and hope my knees continue to co-operate.
Friday night I went to the temple to help sing "Over the Skies of Yisrael" for the special Hannukah dinner in the ballroom. It included a meal, of which they made me a special entree of veggies and rice (mostly green beans, which nobody else got!) This was after my new Jewish Momma, Shirley, made a big fuss with the servers. Gotta love it. I actually ate some veggie rolls from Trader Joe's before I left work, so I was OK with not eating. Our table got overlooked when the latkes came out, but Shirley made a big fuss and got the chef to make more for us. They were only going to give us one platter, but she convinced them to leave both at the table. They were good, but a bit heavy. Of course, that explains jewish food in a nutshell. I'm glad I only had room for one, because you can really feel them in your stomach an hour later. Had a nice dollop of apple sauce on top of them. A little white wine, because there were a couple of toasts to be made. Alan had us split up and sit two at a table so that we could mingle. It was a good idea, there were some very nice people at the table.
It was time to sing our song, and then the guest singers (which I was one) could stay or leave. I decided to go, as I was kind of tired. Our next gig is to sing for "Well in the Desert" for the holiday meal served at the Convention Center for the homeless and disadvantaged on Christmas day. It will be nice to contribute to a worthy cause.

Happy Holidays

Tom the dispatchers holiday party

EVO

Callie is not eating her IAMS moist cat food like she used to, so I am going to switch to Innovo EVO. She had tried it once before; Simone Sheffield gave me two cans that she got in a gift basket (you know, the Hollywood ones that can be worth up to $30 grand.) Callie really liked that food, gobbled it up warm or cold in seconds. It's supposed to be even more natural for pets than the IAMS. I went to the Pet Luv next to the new Home Depot in PS. I was surprised that they were still in business since PetSmart opened across the street from them, but they sell specialty foods that you can't buy in larger chain stores. It was very reasonably priced, too.
I went to the gym after that, and decided to do a 5K run. If it got to be too much, I was prepared to quit after 20 minutes. I felt really good and was able to run mostly at 7.0 or 7.5 up to the 2 mile mark. My towel fell off the handle and ended up behind me, so I punched the speed way down and then stepped it up in increments from 5.0 up to 7.5 (I think). With my towel safely back on the bar, I was able to complete the 5K in just about 30 minutes. It wasn't crowded at all in the cardio room, so I was able to go over the 20 minutes they give you.
I took a shower, then did my weight training. I'm getting good at the weight I'm at now, so I'm thinking I can increase the weight by 5 lbs in another week. I guess my body is starting to shape up, although I'm not ready for the BlueBoy centerfold yet...
Had my rehearsal with the DWFB this morning, it is really shaping up nicely. It will be fun singing in a small ensemble with an orchaestra backing.
Stopped at Trader Joe's on the way back, and bought a whole bunch of stuff. I was hungry, but I didn't buy anything I'm not going to use. Got a bottle of wine for Tom Woodcock's party tonight. Now if I can only figure out his address and the time the party is supposed to start...

I Love A Parade...

Theresa from work sent me this picture, which came out kind of nice. It's from the Gay Pride Parade in November.
Last night I went to the gym, and had a good workout. After doing the treadmill, I went back to the locker room to shower. Mr Blackberry came in, but he quickly dressed and grabbed his bag. He spotted the older guy who interupted us last time. That's just wrong!
I'm going to a rehearsal with the Desert Winds Freedom Band tonight. I'll be singing a couple of songs with the holiday singers. Hopefully everything will go smoothly!

Prop 8 - The Musical

Kind of silly, but cute:

See more Jack Black videos at Funny or Die

Friday

Haven't updated in a while, not much to report. Last Friday was interesting at the gym. I believe I saw Dr. Michael doing sit ups on one of those ball things when I was walking towards the cardio area. And I saw that blond guy with the superman tattoo by the weight stations working on his thighs. I haven't seen him in weeks - maybe months. Love seeing him in the shower. Then Sunday I got caught looking at some guy in the mirror, who smiled at me, but there is no way I would do anything with him. Older, kind of strange guy, but with a long bratworst with casing. I haven't seen "blackberry guy" since that brief encounter in the locker room over a week ago. I think I scare these guys off. I'm going back tonight, so let's see who I can creep out next.
Tuesday was weird. I was kind of out of it; partially because I stayed out Monday night and had 3 scotch & sodas at Streetbar. But things are kind of wearing on me also. Callie had another mini-stroke on Sunday - but she is doing much better now. I saw a picture of my mother from Thanksgiving and she looks so old. I mean Rita Hayworth in the final days old. Really upset me. And then as I was leaving to go to chorus rehearsal, I met one of John's poker friends and it's some guy who was chatting with me on A4A months ago. That was kind of freaky. I had some pain in my shoulder and left arm, so I was laying kind of low all during rehearsal and went home right afterwards.
I went to Trader Joe's after work yesterday, to pick up some rice milk and garbanzo beans. I saw some guy who used to be on A4A, talking to some other guy. I gave him the eye, and had to excuse myself because they were right in front of the canned beans. I like his voice, and he looks more attractive in person then in his pictures. But he seems kind of freaky, so I don't think anything could or would come from it. Just kind of an odd week..

So Stuffed

Wow, it's been a while since I've updated this blog. Had a nice Thanksgiving dinner, made ratatouille, succatosh, and all kinds of goodies. Still have an apple pie to try once I get hungry again (might not be for awhile, now).
Last week on Monday, after the holiday music rehearsal, I went to Streetbar. Ended up entertaining some British tourists. One in particular, seemed to like me a lot. Met him in the bathroom later for a little "get to know you better" session. He gave me his e-mail, guess I should send him a quick note.
Cuqui went to see her sister this week, in Portland, so I have been getting lots of hours at work. Still going to the gym. Today I flexed in front of the mirror before taking my shower, and I have biceps! Wow, I'm actually doing something good at the gym. I tried to make conversation with "Blackberry Guy" the other day, but I don't think it went so well. He just kind of stared at me. There was somebody else who came in the locker room, so maybe that spoiled the mood. I don't know, but next time I just flash him a quick smile and see what he wants to do. I really do like him physically, just absolutely fine. I have no complaints about his physical appearance. Only time well tell where this goes.

Gay is the new Black

Nice turnout for the Repeal 8 Rally at City Hall today.

Weekend Update

Today was fun, got a text from Danny inviting me to brunch at Rick's. I got there first, a little after 11, and put my name in for a table. Dan & John K showed up a little later. Had my huevos rancheros, which I like immensely. Went to the gym afterwards, and was able to do the forest walk, max speed 6.5 mph and max 15% incline. No pain, so I must be getting back into shape. I increased the weights by 5 lbs, so my muscles are getting stronger. After this week, I need to recaculate my one rep max and see where my progress is. I don't quite look like Charles Atlas yet, but it's been less than 2 months. I worked out on Sunday, today, because last Monday was too crazy. Worked until 1715 or so, then went to the gym, then had a rehearsal at 1900 for the chorus holiday music gigs. I didn't get to eat until 2145, and that was grabbing a couple of burritos at Del Taco. At least now I can go home right after work tomorrow and get something to eat before rehearsal.

Mixed emotions

So happy that Obama won the election, but bummed out that Prop 8 passed. I voted after work yesterday, no lines at all. Went to chorus, then Streetbar afterwards. Brook was supposed to meet me there, he even called earlier to confirm. I got there about 10PM, and hung out for half an hour. No sign of him, so I called his cell phone. It went to voicemail after several rings. I finally thought to myself, we usually meet at Spurline, so I wonder if he was there waiting for me? I crossed the street, and sure enough, he was there waiting. He had a friend, Jay, who I have seen around town before but never met. We all went to Streetbar, but Jay left after about 10 minutes. Brook and I stayed, drank beers, and I sang some karaoke. Got an invite to go back to his place. We had fun, but I kept waking up afraid I would oversleep and be late to work. But I did wake up with enough time to go home and get ready for work from there. It was really nice spending some time with Brook, and I hope to do it again before he leaves for Utah Sunday.

Before the Parade passes by...

I once again marched with my chorus in the Palm Springs Gay Pride parade today, Sunday. It was fun, but seemed even longer than last year. Alan had to cancel at the last minute as Joel hurt his back and I guess they couldn't leave Esteban unattended. It all worked out. I was so hungry and tired when I got to Ramon Rd, that I just turned around and went back to my car which was parked almost at Ruth Hardy park. Had a good lunch, napped, and made a new batch of split pea soup for the week. I added a half cup of barley to it, and that really made it thick. I think it might be one of the best that I have made. I'm catching up with my laundry now, and then I get to look forward to spending some time with Brook, my friend from SLC. He called Friday night to let me know he is in town for a week. He wants to meet me after chorus on Tuesday, which means karaoke at Streetbar. He also wants to go out, probably for dinner and drinks, again later in the week. Friday or Saturday would be good as I can stay out as late as necessary, if the occasion calls for it. I do enjoy spending time with him.

Dan & Bruce's Big Fat Wedding

This is the LEGAL gay wedding that I sang at on Saturday. Bruce, the accompaniest from the chorus, married his partner of several years in a charming backyard service. I was one of seven people singing "Evergreen." Very cool.

Me in my new jacket...

I bought this jacket sometime last year at Gottshalks, never knowing when I might need it. Since the wedding I was singing at was dressy/casual, I thought it would be perfect. It's a silk/wool blend, and a very nice blend of colors. I tried on a couple of wool pants that I have, and either would have worked. Only problem is they had moth holes in them!! So I had to go buy a pair of pants. I went to Ross first, and found a pair that were quite nice. They were 32 inch inseams, and just a little too long. No problem, I have a sewing machine. Well, several hours later, I finally got the hems done. It's like I have to reteach myself how the use the thing every time I pull it out. I think I finally understand how to do the blind hem stitch now; but I need to pull out the one I did on these pants. They were OK for a quick fix, but really need to be done again so they look a little more professional. It would be great to have had lessons or learn at the heel of a seasoned seamstress, but we do what we can...

Cute...

Just a wrap-up

My concert went very well Saturday night, it just felt good. We had a full house, lots of walk ups apparently. All the numbers went well, and my big dress number was received quite well. Lots of laughter from the audience. Had a couple of Scotch & Sodas at the in theatre bar. Pretty cool event.
Made my lentil soup on Sunday, then went to my wedding gig rehearsal. I will be singing "Evergreen" along with several other people. It's an arrangement by Bruce, who will be marrying his long time companion, Dan.
Monday was kind of laid back. I went by FedEx on the way to the gym, and dropped off Cuqui's handcuffs and Jeannie May's hat and belt. Props and costume pieces for the show. Did 20 minutes on the treadmill at the gym, but no running. My right knee did well, no pain. I will try to step up my speed when I go back tomorrow. My triceps are hurting, which is good. I was able to do all my weight exercises based on what level I was at when I stopped going 2 weeks ago. My belly is popping out, which I have to say is not very sexy. Saw some interesting guys in the locker room, could not believe the size of one guy's equipment. All men are not created equal! Went grocery shopping when I got home.
Tuesday, I made two pumpkin pies and about 4 dozen chocolate chip cookies. John wants to serve them at his poker game.
I have chorus tonight, and if I get invited to a sleepover later at the bar, I will be able to accept. No work this week. Yay!

FWD:My Callie cat...

My baby taking it easy.

The Real Joe "Plumber"

FWD:I want to be a cowboy...

Fresh from the Zosa gig.

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Been feeling better, just a little of the crud left. Hope to be better by Wednesday. That's when we have a special "teaser" during Bella Da Ball's show at Hotel Zoso. Yee-haw!

For Don

Sick of being sick...

Saturday I came down with a cold, and I've been fighting it since. Didn't have a lot of mucus, but I've got a cough which I wish would clear up already. I'm supposed to go to a bachelor party tonight, but I'm not quite feeling up to it. Couldn't sing my solo in chorus Tuesday night, just knew it wouldn't come out right. Trying to learn the last of my music for the concert in a couple of weeks, but it's tough trying to concentrate. Got my new cell phone, but I just don't have any excitement. I got an 8 gig card to put in it, and now I have all my old ringtones back on the new phone. It's like the Iphone, with a full touch screen interface. I can go on the web and check email and all kind of stuff with it. Maybe after this weekend of laying on the couch I'll be all better.

This is pretty dead on...

Stressed out!

Yesterday it came to a head. My day to work late. Had to go to the gym. Then the gas station. Then Walgreens. Should have gone to PetSmart, but there was no time. Let me backtrack:
Got a call from the vet on Thursday, and Callie's bloodwork came back. She has a greatly elevated thyroid level, 3 times what it should be. She also has a UTI. So I picked up some new pills and a liquid antibiotic for her. When I first saw the syringe, I thought "no way can I give her a shot." But it was an oral syringe, no needle involved. But it needs to be refrigerated, so I had to go home immediately. Which means I had to go to Walgreens to get a pill splitter and 81mg aspirin (for Callie) another time.
OK, so now it's Friday. I get home after 8PM, John has already given Callie 2 parts of her dinner. Which means I had to give her 2 pills in the last part. I manager to do it. But when it came time for the liquid antibiotic, she threw a fit and the stuff landed mostly everywhere except in her mouth. I got real upset, and told her if she doesn't want her medicine then she can stay sick. I don't care if she doesn't get better - I'm through with it. She did come around later after we both cooled down. Although she still hates the oral meds, she was OK today with it. A little struggle, but no lashing out at my with her nails like yesterday. She drew blood. It sucks that I have to do it twice a day. But it should be over after one week. I still have to juggle the pills. One is twice a day, the other is just once a day. And the aspirin therapy is once every three days. I have to split an aspirin into quarters. Lots of fun.
I had an all day rehearsal today with the chorus. We accomplished a lot. My solo went well, although it was shaky in the beginning. Once I got into, though, it really rocked.

LalaPOOLooza

My chorus is going to be performing at the upcoming event at Hotel Zoso. We will be singing with Austin Ray, and the show itself looks pretty darn good. We are singing outdoors and off mike, so it's not the best environment. But it's nice to be associated with such an important event, nonetheless.

I got the solo for "She's Got You" for the "Way Out West" concert with my chorus. I will have to wear a big dress and use lots of props that magically appear from beneath it. It should be a lot of fun, as I am pretty good at physical comedy. At least in my love life I am. Although that is virtually nonexistent at this point.
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My workouts are going well; funny how I added more weight and it almost seems like it's easier to do the reps than before. Well, more weights this week, so lets try to make those muscles grow.

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Yeah, they're reaching....

(Political Animal) PALIN AND STEVENS.... On Friday, Sen. Lindsey Graham (R-S.C.) told CNN, "Gov. Palin took on Ted Stevens. If she can take him on, she can take on the Russians. Heh." He liked the line so much, Graham repeated it on ABC News yesterday, saying, "If you can take on Ted Stevens and that crowd in Alaska, you can handle the Russians."

On its face, it's an unusually inane thing to say. Unless Ted Stevens is a nuclear power with autocratic tendencies, the analogy is rather a childish one for a United States senator to make on national television.

But more to the point, Graham's just wrong. Palin didn't "take on" the allegedly corrupt Alaskan senator; she allied herself with him throughout her brief political career. That includes, we learned today, Palin's work on Stevens' 527 group.


Alaska Gov. Sarah Palin began building clout in her state's political circles in part by serving as a director of an independent political group organized by the now embattled Alaska Sen. Ted Stevens.


In the grand scheme of things, this is probably not the most serious of revelations. It's interesting, I suppose, to connect Palin to one of the more scandal-plagued lawmakers in Washington, but most Americans probably don't even know who Ted Stevens is.

More importantly, though, doesn't it seem as if the McCain campaign's talking points on Palin need a complete overhaul?

The McCain campaign said Palin opposed the infamous "bridge to nowhere." That's false. The campaign said Palin supported the Bush "surge" policy. That's false. The campaign said Palin is the "commander in chief" of the Alaska National Guard. That's misleading. The campaign said Palin is qualified on foreign policy because she lives in a state near Russia. That's dumb.

And the campaign boasted about Palin "taking on" Stevens, and that's wrong. Did the person who wrote the talking points have any idea who Sarah Palin is?




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Callie update

I've forgotten how strong willed Callie is. She doing an amazing job. She takes her pill with food like it's nothing, and is learning to walk with her leg the way it is. She can walk from one end of the house to the other, with just a little sway. I try not to have her walk too fast, otherwise she loses balance. She actually jumped up on the couch by herself yesterday! My stubborn little girl, gotta love her. She might just be all right after all.

I'm adding weight training to my schedule now. Yesterday I went to the gym and did as much a routine as I could. I can't do all the reps on all the machines yet, so this week will be like a break-in period. I'm not as sore as I thought I would be. Back to the gym tonight after work for the treadmill. The one blond guy with the great body was at the gym yesterday, but didn't get to see him shower. Otherwise, it was a pretty good day....

Sweet little Callie

Well, she has been my longtime companion for 15 years, and given me so much joy. Callie went to the vet today, and we believe she had a stroke. She has difficulty using her right hind leg. The vet pumped her full of fluids and gave me some medicine for her. It tears me up inside to see her try to walk and fall down. She can drag herself around, but what kind of life is that? I know what I need to do if her condition perists or worsens, and I cry whenever I think about it. She's lead a good life, and a long one for a cat. Why is saying goodbye so hard??

Triceps are a bitch

I went to the gym Sunday afternoon to try to figure out what my one max rep would be for various exercises. I didn't have the workout sheet with me, so I had to try to remember as many exercises as I could. I did OK, except when I got to the triceps machine. I thought that my arms are so weak that I couldn't possibly do more than 10 with 20 lbs of weight. It turns out I could do over 120 reps. Which was a big mistake. My arms ended up burning so badly the next day. It was until Thursday that they feel almost back to normal. Not sure when I'm going to try it again; maybe this weekend. I've pumped my max speed on the treadmill up to 7.5 MPH, which is kind of exciting. Love that I can run that fast, even if it's just for a quarter mile or so.
I didn't drink too much at Streetbar after chorus on Tuesday. Had an S & S, then ice water, then another S & S. It tasted bad to me, and could only sip a little bit of it. There was only one guy who appealed to me there, Jeremy who is a bartender at Azul. But I didn't pursue anything because he is a bartender. They are a strange breed..

Heart beating, pulse racing...

My workouts at the gym have been going very well. I get on the treadmill and do the "forest walk" program. There is a quick warm-up walk, and then a run for about 1/4 of a mile at 7 mph. Then the ramp incline goes to 8%, and the speed adjusts to 5.1 mph. After a period, it then goes to a 15% incline at 3.5 mph. Then the reverse incline/speed happens until the end, where I run again to round out the workout. There is a two minute cool down, then I hop on the elliptical to do some climbing. I did 15 minutes yesterday, at the upper limit resistance for weight loss. I didn't think I would make it, but held on and even did the 5 minute cool down afterwards. I was totally spent. Made my way to the locker room where I rested by my locker for a few minutes. There were some young guys talking, and some nice looking guy around my age walked by just wearing a towel. He was heading back to his locker, where he took off the towel and was starting to get dressed. He was quite nice, and well equipped. I immediately got undressed, between looking over at him and smiling, and got my shower stuff together in record time. I walked over to the semi-private shower stall, and washed up. All of a sudden, the same guy comes over to the somewhat private shower stall, all the while looking and smiling at me. It's pretty obvious. So I extend my shower time (I was just about done at that point). We keep looking at each other, and he was quite a sight. Really nice body, cute face with a kind of goofy smile, and large penis. Very thick and nicely shaped. I was paying close attention to my own, making sure that it was thoroughly clean and stretched out properly. He was getting excited, and did the tilt of his head, with a come over here look. I went over to his stall, like two steps away, and told him I can't possibly do anything here. I did tell him he had gorgeous equipment. Went back to my stall, rewashed what I had already rewashed several times now. Art, who used to be in my chorus, showed up to change for his workout, and was in my view although I don't think he saw me. Great, now somebody I know is just around the corner. When I saw that Art was gone, I turned off my water and started to dry off. I stood in the middle, closer to shower guy. We did touch each other's privates briefly, but what can you do in a public place like that? He then started to masturbate, but then somebody got into the first shower stall, the handicap accessible one. That was enough for me, I went back to my locker. Shower guy followed about a minute later, and got dressed. I went with my back to the sink area, fussed with my hair, then went back to the locker room. I went right up to him and thanked him for the show. He was very nice, said he liked what he saw also. He told me that he would be at the gym again tomorrow. The vibe I am getting is that he probably has a partner at home and just likes to fool around at the gym or wherever it is spontaneous. He didn't ask me name or if I want to get together on the outside. It was fun, actually my heart was racing so much I thought I would pass out in the shower stall! But I'm not going to risk getting kicked out of the gym. However, today might be a good day to start my upper body strength training....hmmmm

Chad! Chad! Chad!

My future husband!

What can I say?

Well, still no word from DAP. I tested negative for HIV, Gonorrhea, Chlamydia, and no results back on Syphilis, which I think I may have. I haven't seen RC at Streetbar the past couple of weeks, so I asked Paul the bartender if he's seen him. He told me that he saw him walking on Arenas the night before, harrassing a drunk guy. He is not allowed in the bar anymore. I sang "Some Enchanted Evening" at karaoke, which is a warm up for my Los Amigos audition. It didn't go so well, but that's OK, I've studied it at home and think I will kill'em Tuesday. The gym has been going well, I have pumped up my speed to 7 MPH on the treadmill and accidentally punched in 20 min instead of 10 on the elliptical. I decided to tough it out, and made it through. Good workout, had to catch my breath in the locker room. Good, sweaty workout.

Testing Day

Went to DAP today for a barrage of testing. They now do the Rapid test for HIV, which I passed. Which means I was negative. They kind of lost me, and then the phlebotomist rushed through taking my blood. He had to stick me twice, as something happened to the first needle. I have a lovely scar from it. I did real well on the urine sample, could have filled two of those vials. I am concerned about testing positive for Syphilis. Well, it's a dual edge sword. If I test +, it would answer some questions. If not, it would be a relief, but leave me wondering about something. I just dread having to tell 4 people that they need to get tested if I do have the big S.
On lighter news, I am back where I left off at the gym. I am kicking butt on the treadmill. No pain! It is awesome.
Speaking of which, my secret crush was at the gym again Friday. What an amazing body. He certainly fits the stereotype about shorter guys. That they're actually longer. Oh, my....

My Trip to see the Donald!

Had so much fun visiting with the Don. He and Jim were great hosts, and treated very nicely. We had dinner at several nice restaurants, and I got to eat twice at middle eastern places. All very good. The one place out here by Target finally closed (not the best and a little overpriced - such a shame). I had fun touring the Henry Ford Museum with Don, and we even got to go see Chi Chi LaRue at the 33rd anniversary of The Gold Coast. They had dancers there, and I gave a dollar to the best looking one there. Mercy...
We got to go visit some friends of Jim up at a lake near Pontiac, MI, and what a beautiful house they had. We got to go out on the lake, me on a speedboat with Mr & Mrs host, and Don and Jim did the wave runners. We had a great dinner afterwards. All too soon, it was time to pack me up and send me home. But I got to see my Donny Sparkles, and that was worth everything....

1:15 second from the right...sigh...

Chad's chorus...sigh

The sweet smell (sound?) of success

Sunday was my performance day. Had a technical rehearsal on Saturday, which went fast! Sunday, Los Amigos, performed three numbers in the Ballet/Opera House. The audience went nuts for us. They laughed so hard at "Drama Queen" and gave us the first standing ovations of the performance block. What a rush!
When I performed with the chorus on Monday night (great slot!) it was kind of anticlimatic. The audience was very warm, and receptive, but it wasn't the same electric feel from the day before. But I am very proud of how we performed.
I met the love of my life in the lobby of the performance hall. His name is Chad, and he was the soloist for "Rocket Man" when the Columbus Gay Men's Chorus performed their block. He is so cute and very nice. Such a sweet guy! Well, I can dream, can't I???

Miami or Bust!

Well, if the monsoons had any say in the matter, it would have been the latter. I left for the airport on Thursday night, July 10th, fully planning on arriving in Miami by 12 Noon the following day. Turns out that weather was so bad in Phoenix, that the plane never took off the ground, and we had no plane to take us to Las Vegas. Re-booked my flight so that I could come back the next morning to try it again. Went home, slept in my own bed, then got a ride back to the airport. This time, we got on the plane, but they had to cancel the flight due to some problem with the cargo hold. I was starting to freak because my GALA outfit was in the gate checked bag that was in the cargo hold. Fortunately, I was able to grab my bag on the way back to the ticketing area. I tried to see if they could book me on United out of Ontario, but that flight was full. They did, however, get me on a plane to Vegas that met up in Denver for that same flight. Once I got in Denver, I found a bunch of people from my chorus who were taking that flight. I ended up getting an "improved" seat on the flight, and Alan, Joel, and baby Esteban were seated right behind me. We were in the "Economy Plus" section. Very cool. Got to Miami around 1230 in the morning, and took a taxi back to my hotel, the Marriott Biscayne Bay. Was glad to get to my room, where I unpacked and got ready for bed. I was exhausted!

What was I thinking?

Had a good rehearsal yesterday, we are really shaping up for our performance in Miami Sunday and Monday. Finally got the shirt from Penney's in the mail, so that is taken care of. I don't want to hear nothing about no shirts again! I went to Streetbar last night for drinking and karaoke. I was doing well, trying new songs that I will never do again, and having scotch and sodas. Phil, from the chorus, bought me a drink, and then when I came back from singing, there was another one. I drank that one, I think, and then RC wanted to buy me a shot. I downed that, and then it was time to leave. RC tried to get me into a cab, but I had my car there & didn't want to leave it. He followed me to my car and asked me to take him home. What else could I do? After throwing up a couple of times, I drove us to his house. I don't remember much about the ride there. We went to the back bedroom and it was really about cuddling and keep each other company. He is lonely, and craves companionship. I believe he has a long distance sugar daddy, and as usual, the boy has everything except that one thing he needs. Better to be poor and together than rich and apart. His bedroom is the void of all light. Stayed way too late in the morning, and the rest of the day was shot. Sang at the Power baseball game, the national anthem along with the rest of the chorus. I leave for Miami tomorrow night, so my wild adventure in Florida will start then...

It's about time...

That I gave an update, that is! Not really a lot to report. Last Tuesday, at Streetbar after chorus, I had an opportunity to be in a threeway with a couple. One of the guys was French, and I had fun trying to speak with him. His partner really wanted to get it on, he even made one more pass thru the bar before they left to see if I wanted to take them up on their offer to take a dip in their pool. It was a school night, so that was out.
I've seen RC since the last time when he wanted me to go see him in the ballet. He said it was inevitable that we would date. Yeah, right...
Saw "Wall-E" with Danny and company on Saturday, matinee. Very cute movie, well done. And the capper for it was the closing song, by Peter Gabriel. Just doesn't get any better than that.
Just got back from the gym, had a great workout. Pumped up my speed to 7 mph on the treadmill. Did over 5 miles verticle distance. Was sweaty like all get out, which is great. Lets me know that I'm doing something. Did 15 minutes on the elliptical and then hit the showers. Nice looking guy in the shower across from me. I really like it when I get a bonus like that after my workout. Now if I could just get a date out of it....
Oh, yeah...Nadel beat Federrer!!! McEnroe said it was probably the bet tennis match ever, and I think I would have to agree. I'm so glad that he was able to get that Wimbledon Trophy to go along with his 4 French Opens.

Ugh...

This heat is starting to get to me. Usually it's not so bad in the house, but the swamp cooler isn't doing much for making it comfortable inside. I've had a headache the past three weekends. I was going to go to the ballet yesterday, but got a headache and then the thought of finding parking and dealing with the actual heat outside really turned me off to the idea. My chorus was going to hang out on La Plaza with the celebration of marriage thing going on, but I didn't go because I just didn't want to deal with all these happy couples with their happy lives and crap. Yeah, give us the right to marry, but I just ain't there yet. And all the idiots who are going to protest by getting a hate legislation on the ballot in November is going to suck. That stupid "Defense of Marriage Act" passed in California last time, so who know what will happen this time. I hate to say it, but it really comes down to religion. You take the religious question out of it, and there is no logical reason why marriage can't be for gays. But because some people choose to misinterpret some biblical passages, they feel they have the right to discriminate and hate. Nice....

Nothin' new

Just checking in, not much to report. Rehearsal went well on Tuesday, we had Joel Baker filling in for Bruce who is out of town. Joel is a cute enough guy, plays piano at Vallauris.

I got a complement from Alan; Jay kept singing "belly swap" instead of "baby swap" in Drama Queen. Alan said, "oh, it were only that easy.." He went on to add that he wouldn't mind swapping his for Bryan, Greg, or Oleg's. That was nice. Went to the gym Friday, had another good workout. Now that I increase my speed on the treadmill, I get a good, sweaty workout. I took my shower afterwards, and got an eyeful from a cute Latino guy. Tall, lean, and packing plenty. He seemed to be shy, choosing to undress right at the shower stall. I can only imagine he causes such a commotion if he undresses in front of others. Must get old after awhile.
I woke up with a stiff back yesterday, trying to get rid of it. I finally took a pain pill just before leaving for Lowe's & Home Depot. I was floating about halfway thru Lowe's. Had a couple of offers on A4A, but can't do anything with my back like this. It is feeling better today, however.

Good workout

Dragged myself to the gym yesterday, and did 20 minutes on the elliptical and then 20 minutes on the treadmill. I did the "forest walk" with a max speed of 6.0 and incline of 15. I felt fatigue not even halfway through it, so I knew I was getting a good workout. I kept with it, and felt so good when it was over. Caught my breath in the locker room and took a shower. Saw that nice looking guy with gray hair/all over tan. He was wearing a red jock strap. Very handsome....

4 Day Weekend

Jared gave me Friday off; making this a 4 day weekend for me. Had one day left which I had to "use or lose." Not doing much, picked up some tile Friday for the master bedroom bath project. The tile guy is not very good, and wasted a lot of tile putting the shower together. Had to have the handyman guy chip out 2 + tiles so that the plumber could fix the pipe positions that he screwed up originally. He had them set for a conventional hot/cold water setting, but since there is a shower panel going in, the connections have to be a lot closer. Now the drywall has to be reapplied and the tiles set around the new configuration. The bedroom is now a lighter version of the kitchen; cavern moss meets sage green. I noticed the popcorn is gone from the ceiling as well. I made a coleslaw Friday, walked to the market to get the mayonaisse. It is too harsh for my taste, a lot of celery seed was called for in the recipe. I found another recipe online which I think would be better. I like a sweeter, more mild coleslaw. I'm making split pea soup today, still need to chop the veggies for when the peas are done simmering. Not much going on, which I like.

And on the 7th day, Edna rested...

Whew! The concert is over, and it was a great success. Some flaws here and there, but overall it was very good and the audience was very appreciative. My glamorous Edna did not get the ovation I was hoping for, and I didn't feel that I sold my number as well as I could have. After the concert, I just ran back to the dressing room to start putting my stuff away. Girls have so much stuff! Turned in my lavalier (cordless mic) and helped carry some risers to the truck at the dock. Couldn't do that in heels!
We had a very spontaneous encore number that we just threw together at the last minute. In view of the California Supreme Court decision, we sang "Marry Us" from Naked Man while showing the ruling toward the last part of the song. It was very emotional and really made an impact. We performed the number at our last concert, so it was still fresh for many of us. Me singing it in drag kind of led to the absurdity of the moment, I felt. I was trying to hide behind the piano.

ch-ch-ch-Changes.....

Felt like crap Monday, but after resting and taking some Ny-Quil knockoff stuff, I'm feeling so much better. It might be that chemistry between me and Brook; Don knows what I mean...
Anyway, the shaving of my face is complete; no, that isn't a picture of my younger brother - that is me.
The second picture is dowdy Edna. The third, of course, is glamorous Edna. This is going to be some concert...

Ugh!

Today had so much promise...
Practiced some of my music for the upcoming concert. "Try to Remember" is coming along nicely. After lunch, I went with John to get some cheap jewelry for Edna, and a backup "shmatta" for her frumpy scene. I'm just not trusting stuff I bought on eBay to get here on time. I really need the glamorous Edna wig to get here, but everything else I'm not so confident. I did a "buy it now" for a white feather boa (with gold tinsel accents) for Edna because I felt it would compliment her outfit the best. I bought the rainbow one from Q-trading, but I'm having second thoughts about it. Got a stupid migraine in the store, and the flashing just about ended when I got to the parking lot. Went to Home Depot, and got some stuff for the house. The shower needed a "goose neck" adaptor because the shower head needs to project out further into the tub area. It works much better now with that part installed. I spent some of the evening shaving my legs. Looks pretty weird now, I can't remember when my legs weren't hairy. And the goatee is gone! The mustache is next, and I will miss that the most.

Whatta Day!

I had a very productive day, even though it was the start of my 4 days weekend. I left around 10 AM for Revivals; I had those stupid "Members Only" jackets to donate along with a bag of stuff John gave me for goodwill. They did have anything good there for me to use for my Edna Turnblad costume, even though the guy behind the counter kept saying, "All clothing is $1!" But alas, no glamorous dress or frumpy house-coats to be found. I then headed over to Ross (dress for less) to see what they had. I found two outfits, one that I knew would be perfect, and the other a back-up. It was kind of funny at the check stand; the customer behind me just loved the dress I got. I went home and tried them both on with the fat suit, and I had a winner. So after lunch I went back to the mall to return the other dress and bought some pumps at Payless that work so well with the dress. I thought I would be a size 12, however, size 11 was even too big. The size 10's pinched a little, but at least I know they will stay on my feet. I went to Steinmart, where I found some clip-on earrings and a little butterfly pin to keep the top of my new dress closed since I don't have "real" cleavage. I bought some pantyhose and came to the realization that I am going to have to shave. Face, legs, arm pits. It would be pretty gnarly to leave that hair on my body. I ended up winning an auction on eBay for a housecoat, it looks pretty drab, which will be perfect. I'm going to marry that with a pair of slippers I knitted a while ago and a wig with curlers in it. That will be my dowdy Edna look. I have a feeling I'm going to bring the house down with glamorous Edna. It is just so comical.
I had my hair appoint with John K at 4 PM, and then dinner with Brook at 7. We went to the new restaurant on Arenas, Cafe Palette, and the food was very good. We then walked over to Spurline, where they were setting up for karaoke. I sang 3 songs, and then Brook invited me back to the place he is staying at. It was a nice sleep over, although I must say I need more work with the bump master. 'nuff said.

Good Day!

Today went pretty well. Wasn't too hungover from yesterday, just a couple of Scotch & sodas at Streetbar. My rehearsal went well as Edna, the chorus even applauded right after my solo. I finally got the fat suit today, and it is a scream. It is somebodies commercially purchased Halloween costume; an overweight stripper. It had a red sparkly G-string and pasties on the body, but since one was already falling off, I removed them. It looks weird on me, but when you drape something over it, there is this outrageous "Mae West" figure that emerges. This just might be worth shaving for after all! I have started an early weekend; using some of my extra days before they disappear at the end of the month. So I can go shopping for more "Edna" stuff. I already got two wigs on eBay. My thinking is that I will have a frumpy Edna look followed by a sexy Edna. I know I can make it work! And it will be fab-u-lous!
The main thing that made it a good day is Brook called me at work and said that he would like to have dinner and drinks tomorrow night. Perfect! I'm going to try that new "Cafe Palette" and see how it is. I don't think Allen from the now defunct Rainbow (Cactus) will be working, which is a bummer 'cause we've become such good Pisces friends. At least I can tell him that I tried his new place of business next time I see him.
I will be shopping tomorrow to see what else I need to complete my costume. Exciting!

Edna's Debut

Yesterday, Saturday, was our runout concert at the First Congregational Church of Riverside. I had the house to myself as John had traffic school that day. I got my stuff in order, including making a lentil soup for the week, and had two chorus members come over for a carpool to riverside. We took my car, and I drove which was a pretty big step for me since my problems with driving that started 4 years ago. I did really well, and had my GPS in the car which saved us once we got into Riverside. We missed a couple of turns, but it was able to recalculate the route quickly and gave us the back street directions. There was a car show going on in downtown Riverside, which meant several roads were closed off. We were able to park in the back lot of the church, in an undesignated area, but I was assured by one of the people there that my car would be fine. We did some blocking for the hairspray number, then did a practice run through of the concert. We broke for lunch, and I went with 5 other members to the Spaghetti Factory for dinner. I ordered the vegetarian lasagna, but found out that they no longer had it in stock. So I got the angel hair with mushroom marinara sauce. It was OK, nothing special. We got back to the church just in time to change. They held the "curtain" a few extra minutes to allow more people time to park and filter in. There weren't a lot of people in the audience, but it was still nice to have a run through of the concert before we do it at the McCallum in two weeks. It went very well, and my Edna was stunning. Alan cued me when to start singing, and I had a better feel for the rhythm of the song. I also found out that our guest singer, Danny Mills, has a female fat suit leftover from a Halloween costume. He will have Andy bring it to rehearsal on Tuesday for me to try and see if it will work. Then all I have to do is go to a thrift shop to buy a muu-muu and matching accessories. I would really like to get a housecoat to go over the dress so that I can have a quick costume change. There's not much time, but I'm sure I can pull it together...

Only for so long...

I think "burning the candle at both ends" finally caught up to me. I've gone out too many times in the past week, and I ended up getting a migraine headache after going to the gym last night. I tried to go to the Valero station at Date Palm & Ramon, but there were people waiting all over the lot to get gas. At $4 a gallon, you would think it wouldn't be so busy. So as I was negotiating my way out of the parking lot, I noticed that my vision was starting to go crazy. And I know what that means...
I did make a pit stop at B of A to get some money and deposit a couple of checks. It was kind of cool because the drive thru ATM doesn't use deposit envelopes; you feed your check into the machine and it makes an image that you can review on the spot. I could hear it imprinting something on the check as well. And then when you get your receipt, it has a picture of the checks on it. Really cool.
I got home and laid down on the bed to try to get the aura from the headache to stop. It did calm down, and I was able to eat and take some ibuprofen. I had to go to Alan's cabaret show at Oasis; we were told to go to the 2nd showing at 2045. It was nice, but Alan felt like he was coming down with a cold (probably just allergies form this crazy wind) and his voice wasn't all there. There was also a very annoying automated light thing on the ceiling that kept cycling (kind of rotating) for no reason at all. And it was making a whirring sound. It was very annoying. Then it stopped when the show was over. Oh, well...what can you do.
I went home to rest after the show. Feel better today, although I can still feel the pain in my head if I sneeze or bend over. It will pass.

This just in...

I just got a phone call from my buddy Brook, from SLC, that he will be coming to the desert in a week! I'm very excited, as he wants to spend some time with me. That will be way cool. He seemed to indicate that he will have his own place to stay, which I think means that we will be able to spend some time alone. I knew that extra training with the "bump master" would come in handy...
Way cool!
Seriously, he is a very nice guy that I feel very comfortable with. This will be a nice distraction...

The LimeLight

Made myself dinner last night, got my tux garb together, and went to the Desert Air Museum around 1900. We hung out in the offices upstairs until it was time for us to perform. We came on right after Sally Struthers, carrying electric candlesticks to the stage. The front row, which I was a part of, crossed in front of the stage before entering by the steps on either side. A very dramatic entrance, indeed. We sang our song, got very nice applause, and then quickly exited. Went back upstairs to change into our military drag. The gave us shirts earlier, brand new in the bag, which were ours to keep. I ironed mine, but it would have been better to have laundered it first. They had a box of clip-on ties and caps (those with the two points) which we just wore with the shirts and our tux pants & shoes. I thought it was going to look real bad, but it ended up being kind of nice. The professional dancers actually had the matching pants as well. The looked really cute all dressed up. We then were ushered back to our waiting positions and got to see some of the performers. They opened the back wall, which was a hangar door, and one of the stars was a big military plane. It might have been a B-17 or something monstrous like that. The music started and we headed to the stage to sing "You're a Grand Old Flag" with the dancers doing their routing in front. It was a medley of different patriotic songs, ending with "America the Beautiful." Somebody came on stage and passed us confetti "cannons" which we used at the very end to shoot the audience with. That was fun!
I brought a change of clothes and went to Spurline afterwards. Delorian Chase, the current Miss Gay California, was having a drag show with Greg, who I know from karaoke, EmCee'ing in drag. It was fun, and I left after the first act was over. I was getting tired. But I got two glasses of beer, which really hit the spot after performing and dealing with the heat. Nasdrovia!

Edna

So, through some twist of fate, I am now singing the role of Edna Turnblad in our "Hairspray" medley for the chorus. The guy who originally got the solo cannot perform our show in Riverside next Saturday, so Alan gave me the part. I don't know about the shaving, plucking, & wearing of the fat suit. It's not an actual theatrical performance, so I think dressing up in drag is out.
We just had our tech rehearsal for the benefit at the Desert Air Museum which will be later tonight. I'm going to be front and center on the stage. I don't know how I became so popular all at once. I was chatting with the musical director for the show on A4A the other night. He is a big muscle bottom. All in all, it should be a fine show. Can't wait till it's all over.

BARACKY

Party Boi

So I went to Steve Smith/Conrad's party in Cathedral City yesterday. It was actually fun, despite my reservations about it. Got some admiring looks from guys I wasn't interested in. There was one guy, Christopher, who was nice, but kind of a mess. Not being judgemental, but he is just out of a 19 year relationship that I'm guessing he didn't want to end. He got quite drunk, and is a smoker to boot. I think most of the guys at the party Steve knew from the various smoking patios on Arenas, if you know what I mean. I had offered this guy a ride home, and he accepted since he didn't drive and wanted to leave. A minute later, he is outside dancing around the pool. Then he comes back in, and says he is ready to leave. Not to make it look like we are leaving together, I go get the car to pull it up to the house. He is saying his goodbyes, then I assume he thought I ditched him. He ends up getting into a car with another couple. He was so trashed at that point, he probably didn't even realize what was going on. I'm sure there would have been drama if I ended up taking him to his home, so I guess it happened that way for a reason.
I made my lentil soup this morning, and now I'm doing laundry. Getting ready for the next two weeks at work, when I get to be Cuqui. Coneyo Carraho!

Goodbye Doug, We'll miss you

Today was the memorial for Doug. Got to meet his daughter, Emma, who looks so much like my niece it was almost odd. She was very sweet and I was glad to tell her how much I was going to miss her father. The chorus sang "Let the River Run" and "The Prayer" at the service. I had a Bloody Mary in Doug's honor, although I don't care much for tomato juice. It was a very nice tribute to Doug and I'm so glad I was a part of it.
I got home around 1:30 and decided to make some lunch. I ended up dropping a jar of spicy carrot bits on the floor, causing glass to go everywhere. I cleaned it up, and then threw out the carrots 'cause there was no way to be sure that all the glass bits were gone. I hate wasting stuff, especially food.
I have been to the gym in a week, and my stomach is looking the smallest I can remember in recent weeks. Funny how that can work. But I really need to add some muscle to my torso, sometimes I can see what can be and it can be inspiring. Sigh...
I tackled the bump master and was able to get past the 8th one. Other than the base, that's as far as on can go. I guess I'm ready now...
Started chatting with Jed on A4A. He is an interline guy that I know from the counter at work. He recently updated his pictures on A4A and they are quite nice. But already I have a strange feeling about him. Very long delays between mail. Will have to see...

CSA

Yesterday I had dinner with Cuqui, Danny, and Gary at Angelina's over by the Ralph's shopping center. It was very nice, although the food was the best Italian I've ever had. But being from NJ, it's a pretty hard order to fill. Gary is visiting this week, but is planning on going back north before the weekend. I got two calls during dinner, which of course I couldn't answer. One from Don and one from Marienne. Since both are from the east coast, it was too late to call them when dinner was over. Bummer, would really have liked to talk to both.

A Taxing Day

So yesterday I finally signed my tax returns and mailed them to the powers that be. The Post Office wasn't bad at all; found a parking space in the lot immediately and only had to walk into the lobby to put my envelopes in the mail slot. The bad part is that it was 2PM when I drove there and it is a mess on Avenida Caballeros with the middle school letting out at that time. But it is done, and that is one less thing to worry about.
I went grocery shopping around 4PM, deciding to go to Ralph's since my chorus is part of the rewards program there. For every purchase that I make using my card, the supermarket will send in a donation to my non-profit organization. We need every penny we can get, so I'm doing my part for the cause.
I barely had enough time to race home, warm up some leftover pasta, and then head over for my Los Amigos rehearsal. Don called just as I was heading over to the rehearsal hall. Would have loved to have chatted with him, but they had already started singing.
Dan tried calling while I was in rehearsal with the general chorus later, but I had already turned all the sounds off my phone. Gary is back in town, and they are planning a dinner out with him. It sounds like lots of fun, and I would like to do that.
I went to Streetbar after chorus, and had my Scotch & soda. I only sang one song, one I hadn't done before, the Nat King Cole arrangement of "Love is Here to Stay." It's very nice, but I had trouble hearing my voice over the crappy sound system. I think I had some nice moments, none-the-less. There was a younger guy, maybe mid 20's to 30's, who was singing later in the evening. At one point, he was singing that Neil Diamond song about the traveling medicine show, or whatever the hell it is, and came down off the stage to involve me. I put my hand in his, which was nice since he was pretty hot, but he reeked of cigarette smoke. I mean, really bad. What a turn off! Still not sure why guys do that to themselves.
I actually stayed until closing; the dreaded lights came on at the bar! After yelling, "Oh, no you di-n't!" to Paulie, the bartender, I decide it was time to pour myself in the car and put it in autopilot. Had a rough time getting up this morning, but thank goodness no work today.

Miss you, Donny Sparkles

Just in time for the cooler weather!

A Week Off

Today is my first day of vacation. I was tentatively planning on going back east to visit my mother, but this Sunday is the memorial service for Doug, our fallen member from the chorus. The chorus is singing for him, and I really want to be a part of it. And will.
I did my taxes today, and I am paying the government due to my mutual funds doing so well. I have converted from class B to class A, which has a higher yield. This off sets my mortgage interest credit enough to where I have to pay. Which is weird because I get taxed on my capital gains AND I get taxed if I then cash in those stocks. So it's double taxation which doesn't make much sense to me. Nothing sure in this life except death & taxes.
My afghan is coming along quite nicely, just working on the border right now. Since it is in the high 90's, it's perfect timing. Ha!
I looked into cashing in my rewards on my credit card for my upcoming trip to Miami in July. I would have to use 25,000 points and still pay $320 for a round trip ticket. Will also have to pay for the hotel all the days that I spend there. Haven't heard back from Don yet, so I'm not sure if I'm splitting my week in half. I would really like to see the knuckle-head again, but I need to confirm the details since there is a conflict with the dates.
I took out the "bump master" on Saturday; popped in a T.I.M. movie; broke out the "elbow grease;" and went to town. Surprised about how much I was able to get in after a long absence. I still can't get to the base, but I think I'm off by two bumps. Which means that I still can't accommodate myself - not that it would be physiologically possible anyway.
Bathroom remodel has come to a crashing halt. The contractor has been AWOL for about a week now. Don't have any explanations.
I think Dr. Michael is history. He said that his sister and her family made a surprise visit this past weekend. I'm ready to write that one off.

This Week's Not As Busy

This week started on Sunday with our gig at Tamarisk Country Club. Los Amigos sang a short program, starting with "Brand New Day", "Broadway Show Stoppers Medley", "Seize the Day", "They Can't Take That Away from Me", and "Xanadu". After we finished the last number, the audience erupted in thunderous applause and then started shouting for an encore. Well, we didn't have one planned, but Alan thought for a moment and decided that we could sing "Seasons of Love" from "Rent". We performed it at our last concert and since it fits the theme of the upcoming one, we are going to use it again. The piano did the intro, and then we started singing the opening lines, "5 hundred, 25 thousand, 600 minutes..." and then the audience started clapping again. It was so cool, I don't think that ever happened before. After a moment, they stopped as we continued to sing without missing a beat. They liked us. They really liked us!
Monday, I had the rehearsal for the benefit for the new Family Services Center that will be held at the Air Museum. We are performing "Night and Day" and "You're a Grand Old Flag". We had to give our measurements because we will be wearing military uniforms while we sing. It should be very interesting.
Had the regular chorus rehearsal on Tuesday night. It is going very well, and I did most of my singing "off book". I listen to the rehearsal CD in my car several times I day, during my short approx. 10 minute commute, and really have the words and notes down. I love that. Frees me up to look at the director for musical direction.
Went to Streetbar afterwards for Scotch & Soda and karaoke. There was a pretty good crowd there. Australian soldier boi was there, and I have never seen him so f*ck*d up as he was that night. I thought for sure he would pass out at some point. Very sad.
Last night I got to relax at home; put some music in the computer and crochet a little. I had to stop at Michael's (the store, not the doctor) and pick up another skein of black yarn. I just fell short of completing the last "granny square" for my throw. I went after the gym (which I also went on Monday!)
That is going very well, I'm doing the elliptical, about 350 calories, and then the treadmill with incline, for another 50+ calories. I workout enough to sweat, which necessitates taking a shower. Makes me feel productive that way. Haven't seen anyone really hot in the locker room lately. I think about that one guy with the beautiful body. Looked like his butt was sculpted out of stone. And it was just inches from my face at one point. Ahhh...
Did some laundry last night, need to take the colors out of the dryer sometime today. It was still running last night when I was ready for bed.
Dr Michael is not mad at me, as I previously thought. I think he is just very busy. He has to be on-call some nights, and I think he had a lot of them last week. He does seem to be a little distant still, however. Hopefully, I will know what's going on soon.

I'm Tired!

What a week! Had a rehearsal on Monday night, Tuesday (long assed rehearsal!), Wednesday, and then an "all day rehearsal" today, Saturday. There is a paying performance tomorrow at the Tamarisk Country Club, where Los Amigos is performing a few numbers.
I think I ticked off Dr. Michael Thursday night. We were chatting on A4A, and he was hinting about me coming over to spend the night. I hadn't eaten yet, and I was exhausted physically and mentally. So I didn't pick up on his "invite" as quickly as I guess I should have. He gave me a quick "sleep tight" response. He sent me a message on Friday night, I guess after I had already left to get some dinner. When I got back, I sent him a message asking how his weekend was looking. He read it, but never got back to me. Oh, well, this isn't supposed to be serious and of no drama. We'll see how this plays out...
I got a new iron, so I get to try it out on my new tux shirt. I will look very spiffy for tomorrow. I can hardly wait. :::Insert sarcastic smilie here:::

Fun Night

Yesterday was very nice. Made my soup, which turned out great. Entered most of my music learning tracks on the computer; finished the rest on Sunday. Went outside to get some sun and pull weeds out of the front lawn. Left for Dr. Michael's around 1715, stopping at the ATM to get some money. Good thing I did, only had $5 in my wallet. Got to his house 15 minutes early, and he was in the shower. I didn't mind since I was early anyway. He let me in, and I hung out on the back patio while he finished getting ready. We went to Mario's, an Italian restaurant over in the Las Palmas shopping center in Rancho. We got there just in time as we were able to secure the last outdoor table. Beautiful weather yesterday, BTW. It got crowded shortly thereafter. I got the eggplant parmigiana which was very good; the spaghetti that came with was not the greatest. Had a very nice Chianti with dinner. We left for the movie in plenty of time. Went to Cinema Palm D'Or, and the movie was playing in cinema one. There were not many people in attendance; which is kind of a bummer since the movie was pretty good. One wishes the gay community would show a little more support. Afterwards, we went back to Michael's place, where much fun and merriment commenced. If nothing else, he is a great kisser. Mr Happy had no complaints, and we had a nice sleepover. I wish there had been more cuddling, but I understand that sometimes one needs a little space in bed. He made me breakfast, and then it was time for us to get on with our individual days. All in all, a very nice date.

Catchin' up with the O

Not much to report this week. Working out at the gym, rehearsal on Tuesday followed by drinking and karaoke. Over did it a bit, was dragging the next day at work. Going to see "Shelter" this Saturday with Dr. Michael. Some Italian beforehand, and then some French/Welsh afterwards. A sleepover is planned.
Details to follow.

Beautiful day

Yesterday, Sunday, was really nice. Although I did laundry in the morning, I got a call from Dr. Michael that he was back in town. I, of course, was in the shower when he called but we eventually talked and set up a plan for the day. I went over to his place mid-afternoon, and we had a couple of beers. Headed to his bedroom for some horizontal time. I had stopped at Q-Trading on Saturday, on the way to the gym, to get another one of those rubber rings that help you keep a rock hard erection. Mine actually melted! Not from hot sex, mind you, but from keeping it in the sock drawer in the bedroom. Must have been one of the really hot days we had over the summer. Well, I got another one, and then forgot to bring it with me for my tryst. No problem, things seemed to work fine without it. That means I'm getting more comfortable with him. It was a very nice time, indeed.
We then ordered a couple of pizzas, he had to have some meat on his. I don't mind at all. After we were done, I had another beer while we talked a little in his living room. But I think his long day (he was up at 4 AM to catch a flight out of Portland to come back to the desert) really took it out of him and it was time for me to leave.
I got a message from him today on A4A; he wants to get together on Saturday. He said he would like me stay over some night, it just may well be this weekend. Stay tuned...

Jumping on the Bandwagon

Well, all the cool kids are doing it! Didn't the Dixie Chicks get into trouble for something like this? Hee Hee.
OK, nothing much to report this week except more of the same. Had chorus rehearsal Tuesday, went to Streetbar afterwards to drink and sing karaoke. I actually did a lot of songs I never did before, including "Locomotive Breath" by Jethro Tull. I heard a comment by Lindsay that it would probably sound like Frank Sinatra, but I have heard it on the radio so many times in my 20's that I think I nailed the sound fairly well. I also did "Fire and Ice" by Pat Benatar, and that was fun.
Thursday I had a bass sectional rehearsal, and afterwards I went to check out Karaoke at Spurline. It was OK, and there was not as much as a selection as the other two places I have gone. I just had a Bud Lite draught and split after it was gone.
My workouts at the gym just consist of doing 20 minutes on the old elliptical machines. Today, Saturday, I was really straining to do the workout. But I got through it, and feel pretty good now. I really need to do some strength training...
I chatted with Dr. Michael earlier on A4A. He is in Portland, OR, right now interviewing for jobs up there and to visit with his family. He was offered two positions, so things are moving right along for him. He wants to get together tomorrow after his plane gets in and he is able to bring his dog home from the kennel. We will probably mess around at his place late afternoon and then get something to eat. I'm thinking it will have to be something ethnic as it is Easter Sunday. I really like spending time with him, and we seem to have good chemistry together.

Sunday, Sunday, Sunday!

I had a lot of fun Sunday. Went over to Dr. Michael's house; we were supposed to do the "Bump & Grind" hike. But due to the weather, we decided to go out for lunch instead. Well, we still did the bump and grind, but there wasn't any hiking involved. We did go out for Thai food later, but one could hardly call it lunch at that point. I do have to say he is a great kisser.

Hikus Interuptus

Well, today I was supposed to do the "Bump & Grind" with Dr. Michael, but seeing how it's not even going to hit 60 degrees today, we are going to have lunch instead. I'm going to meet him at his place, which will be nice. Things are progressing very nicely.

I took pictures of the afghan, one in particular shows the whole pattern off well.

There were stucco and drywall people here all day. The new windows are now installed in both bathrooms, and they fit perfectly in the existing frames. They will be back on Monday to finish up the drywall.

I made a split pea soup, which is quite delicious. Unfortunately, I overlooked a small pebble that was in the bag of peas which I bit into while eating it today. It caused no damage, but jeez....

My Butt Hurts

OK, but in a good way! Yesterday, I was able to work out on one of the old ellipticals at the gym. Today, my butt and leg muscles were aching. That is actually a good thing! Was a long day, so glad that it was my turn to leave early. I was actually starting to dread going out later, but forced myself. The GPS rocked in telling me exactly where the restaurant was. "Arrived at destinaton." Such beautiful words. When I got to El Mirasol, Dr. Michael was waiting for me. He already had a beer and was seated outside. We chatted for awhile, and I got a Modelo Especial. Yum. They have a special vegetarian section, and I got the spinach enchiladas. They were very good. Michael sprang for the bill, which was great since I was planning on paying for the movie. We left at 1845 to make the 1900 showing just up the street a couple of blocks. I got to introduce Michael to Dan, who brought his coworker Carl. That was so nice, I was glad they both could come. I really appreciated it. We got a couple of Bud lites, on tap, but the bartender must have just recently applied cologne/after shave because that's all I could taste on my glass. If your tongue becomes numb licking cologne off a hot guy's jawbone, that's one thing. Eww...
I wish that the movie was better attended, being a fundraiser and all. Michael and I made our way down to the chairs to watch the movie. It was kind of campy and a little second rate. But it had that gay theme going, which we need to support. I enjoyed it for what it was. After the movie was over, they played the DVD from our last summer concert, "By Popular Request." Michael enjoyed listening to the chorus. We sat back down and I put my arm around him. He responded by holding my hand and eventually interlacing his fingers with mine. Just before the second showing, we left for our separate homes. We hugged three times in the parking lot, and he told me he wanted to kiss me but was sure he was coming down with a cold. He said he would like to go on a third date, perhaps on Sunday. I really like this moving slow and getting to know him gradually. This isn't the "slap and tickle" I was expecting, but I'm getting into it. I tell myself every 5 minutes that he is leaving, probably for good, by the end of June. I sent him a message on A4A when I got home, and a few minutes later he responded. He signed on just to tell me he had a nice time also. Then he was gone.
I think I'm going to have some explaining to do at Chorus next Tuesday. :)

Grinning like a fool...

Today was a good day, as far as that goes. I had to stay a little later at work, which was no big deal. Then I went to the gym, and went on one of the old elliptical machines. I don't know how accurate it is, but I burned 350 calories on it. And my knees don't hurt! Best part, though, was watching this gorgeous guy run on the treadmill near the emergency exit by the wall of windows. He was probably in his mid 20's - 30's, and had the most nicely toned body. And a bit of a butt on him. I was really hoping he would show up in the showers while I was in there, but no such luck. Sigh....

I got home and had dinner, then went on A4A to see if Dr. Michael had sent me a message. He was on, and we chatted back and forth. He asked if I was flirting with him, and I told him everything was cool with me. I don't want to get married, but I wouldn't mind skipping to the honeymoon. He asked me to go to the movies with him, and I told him about the fundraisers the chorus was having at Oasis. He was very interested in going, and we made plans to have dinner at El Mirasol and then go to the 7 Pm showing of the movie. He is very happy with what is going on, and I'm going into this to have fun with someone who is nice to be around. I guess it will be like when Brook comes into town. We can hang out, and if it gets physical, it will be fun with no expectations. I really do want to find an LTR, but in the meantime I do have needs....

It's done!

I finished the afghan yesterday! I was so surprised how quickly I was able to garter stitch the border around it. It is so soft and so warm. I will take some pictures of it Saturday. I'm planning on getting out the tripod and doing a photo study. Need to learn how to set the automatic shutter (self timer?) on the camera. Also, I need to reset the date, since it is way wrong. I'm no Tom Bianchi, but we'll see what happens. I have an offer to pose as a model for someone, but we'll see how that goes. I think Michael is tempting me with an offer on being F W B. I've been pretty "lonely" lately, so I am seriously considering it.

One door closes, one opens?

Today I slept in way late. Got up about 0730, John had left for traffic school an hour before. Didn't even hear him. I putzed around, then started making my lentil soup around 1030. I finally got all the pieces of the afghan all crotched together, now I just need to knit the border around the whole thing. I hope I can get it all on one circular needle. It is long!
I watched some episodes of "Reno 911" that I downloaded awhile ago. Saw the one with the corporate sponser where they had the pink and white uniforms. Funny stuff.
My A4A contact, Michael, told me today that he is moving back to Portland and will be leaving the desert by the end of June. He was really nice, and didn't want to lead me on. He recognized that I don't do the NSA thing since I am a bit sensitive. I just don't have it in me. I like a little romance with my nookie. So I think that just leaves us as cyber buddies. I knew it wasn't going in the right direction, or at least the way I wanted it to. Better to know now than later. I gotta give him props there...

Friday??

Wow, I guess this week is just about over. I don't have much to show for it, except that I'm pretty well rested and my afghan is getting so much closer to completed. I crocheted together the strips into columns, and attached two of them together. I will crochet those, and then crochet those together resulting in a 6 by 4 tiled afghan. Then I just need to knit the border, simple garter stitch, and it will be done. May just be done in time for summer. Ha!
Looked at some granite/marble/synthetic stone for the bathroom vanity countertop yesterday. It will be very expensive, perhaps more than I want to spend. Also, the tile store got in the two replacement boxes of tile for the other bathroom, but it is the wrong sequence number. So they will send them back and reorder the correct ones. Good thing there isn't a tile guy standing around needing them right now.
I only went to the gym one day this week, but I really will make an effort to go today. That, and I need to fill up my tank at the pumps. I tried to go Tuesday, but the card readers were down at two of the gas stations on Date Palm. I will try again today. Hopefully....

Relaxin'

Just taking it easy this week. Yesterday was my birthday, but I didn't have any big plans. Went to Big Lots because I heard they sell an adapter that would work with my GPS so I can charge it with the house current. It seems to work fine, but the plug is a little sensitive and can pop out it the unit is bumped even a little. Stopped by the tile store, but the two extra boxes of tile for the bathroom still haven't come in yet. The remodel is on hold now; the contract is in default and is now going to a new contractor, more than likely. The guy who did the plumbing is interested in finishing the job, but he is harboring resentment because he never got paid from the main contractor for work that he performed. Since that other guy was paid, he should get it from him. It's a mess. Hopefully, something will work out.
I finished all the blocks for my afghan, now I just need to piece them all together. I'm thinking of crocheting them together. Then a border needs to be knitted around the entire project. I have large circular needles, but I don't know if it will long enough to work. If I have too, I can crochet around it. Then it could be as long as can be and still work.

Well, that was nice...

This morning was nice, got to sleep in just a little. Callie has this funny thing where she doesn't like me to sleep too late, but she will let me once I acknowledge her effort to serve as my feline "alarm clock." I really wanted to make my soup, so I showered after my coffee and cereal, and hit the supermarket around 10 AMish. I got back home and commenced on making my split pea soup while listening to Avenue Q on my Zune. It sounds like a very funny show, I would like to see it if it ever comes out here. Sort of like a Sesame Street for adults, if you will. I worked a little bit on my knitting; I just need to complete a couple more squares until I piece it together. Then knit a unifying border around it. My soup was ready around 1230, and it was quite good.
I left the house around 1345 for Koffi, and met Michael there for the first time. I met him on A4A, and he seemed nice to chat with. He is a doctor, and not bad on the eyes. Pretty blue eyes. Anyway, we had a nice time over a cup of java, and then walked around the art festival across the street. After an hour or so, we walked to the back parking lot, where we were parked right next to each other! He took off, but not before saying he would like to have dinner together some time. I agreed, and asked him to message me or call me on my cell. I then got in my car, plugged in the GPS so it could charge. Drove all the way down Palm Canyon so I could shop at Trader Joe's. I also needed to pee and thought Target would be a good spot. When I finally got there, my bladder was hurting. I walked into the store like I was on a mission. I heard somebody call my name, but I wasn't sure. I kept walking to the men's room and then I heard it again. I turned this time, and there was Michael right behind me. Seems that he had bought a scale at the store last week, and now it was on sale and wanted the discount applied to his card. We ended up going into the men's room together (no, Don, we didn't!) and ended up walking out to the parking lot together. Again we said that we would like to get together.
I went to TJ's, and it was a little different. I couldn't find the Indian food, turns out it was on the other side of the aisle on a bottom shelf. The Warres Port that I bought and like last time was no longer there (nor was the Zifandel one). They had a $42 bottle, but there is just no way I would pay that much for it. I ended up getting some strange brand; I just hope it's good. I played "let's confuse the GPS" on the way home. That's a fun game. "Recalculating route....turn around....recalculating route...."
Good times!

Friday finally got here...

I was tired, this week really took it out of me. Have been going back to the gym, but only walking on the treadmill for 20 minutes with varying degrees of incline. 4.5 mph max speed, 15% max incline. Knees have been holding up very well, but I don't want to push it by running on them again. I'm able to stretch better now, although my full flexibility is not there yet.
I got my gps navigator from Woot. An early birthday present to myself. I used when driving to the gym and then back home. It kept recalculating the route, as it kept wanting me to go a different way. It was very good though, and fast at keeping up with me. I need to learn how to use it better, though. Just read the .pdf file on the disc that came with it, although I'm not sure how much I retained. It talks to me in UK English, which is cool.

I need to go to the grocery store this morning (Saturday) and get some stuff to make my soup for the week. I'm on vacation, so I don't have any real constraints this week. I'll be able to close Streetbar this Tuesday, although I usually run out of there before then.